just a thought

i revisited my formspring account, and this anonymous asked me kung dapat ba daw pilitin ang sarili na mag move on if hindi pa ready. so, i really thought for a while. ako kasi, there's nothing wrong in hoping. hoping na babalik pa sya, and mababalik pa yung dati. that's for me on the choice of hoping. for me kasi, you'll be able to move on lang kung willing ka and ready ka. it could be na ready ka, as in time permits you and gives you a lot of oppurtinities para maka move on, pero di ka naman willing, so dapat, for me, start from zero. dapat willing k muna. on the other hand, it can't be na right after the break up, or split, gora ka to move on right away! kalerkyy naman yon. syempre, before anything else, dapat dumaan muna sa mga stages para success ang moving on:) just take one step at a time.

also, first of all, one has to accept the fact that the relationship is over and can't be brought back to the way it's been before. seeing your past with someone new is really painful but it's part of the package of acceptance. syempre may mga taong madali talagang mag move on and we can't blame them. the focus is to first accept the fact that he's out of your life, in the same way that you're no longer part of his. the good thing about that naman, is you get the chance to see yourself better, in a way na magfofocus ka naman sa sarili mo. love yourself a little more. there's nothing wrong about that:)

If you have already accepted the fact that it's over, then, eventually, everything would follow. Magiging okay na ang lahat, the same way when you have not met your ex. And since you've learned lessons from your past relationship, you have become better now and more mature to handle relationships better. That's it!

Never be scared to get scarred for each teaches lesson. But that doesn't mean that doesn't mean that you keep on hurting yourself by waiting for something that you know can't be brought back. Open your eyes. Open your heart. Take chances. Don't let happiness pass you by. Don't keep on waiting for someone to get back, maybe some out there is also waiting for you. Be happy!! Love yourself:)

Thank You! To God be the Glory!