it's been four long months since i started living alone, and become totally independent. talk about complete independence. don't get me wrong, i don't mean those 'carefree' or 'YOLO' or 'young, wild and free' kind of living, or how ever you may want to call it. what i actually mean is that I am living alone, yes literally, doing errands for my self and completely independent (except financially, of course)
This experience of mine is somehow not new to me since I am used to living in a dorm or condo during my college years, for the last 4 straight years. I used to stay with my highschool barkada during those times, so that 'homesick' feeling was not that terrible. you know it's different when you have room mates and friends with you or some people to talk to when you feel down or stressed. they would somehow cheer you up.
Living far from my family is not new, however, living far from them ALONE is completely a different story. No more roommates and late night chikahan sesh. gosh. the thought was really impossible especially for a madaldal person like me. Surprisingly, I was able to survive and still surviving! oh, scratch that, i am actually enjoying it. yes. no doubt. don't get me wrong again on that note, what i actually want to say is that living alone has given me a lot of chances of growing emotionally and getting to know myself a lot better. And those moments make me enjoy this pretty little independent living even more.
Well those 4 months were a bit rough due to some major adjustments, but getting used to doing those was not that really hard. Talking about MAJOR adjustments this time. Many of my friends know how I hate paying bills on my own. But hey, mind you, it's already part of my monthly checklist! good thing that the office at the basement of my pad collects our monthly bills (electricity, water and even my telephone and internet bills) so there's less hassle for a busy person like me. :p Another checklist that I actually have to accomplish is doing the groceries. This time, I do it twice a month. My friends know how much I enjoy pushing carts and selecting goodies at the supermarket. haha yes, doing those wifey stuff during weekends is one of my therapies in unwinding and releasing the stress of the week! :)
On this part, I would basically share my routine lifestyle for the past 4 months :))
MONDAY
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TUESDAY
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WEDNESDAY
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THURSDAY
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FRIDAY
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ANATOMY
(8-12)
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ANATOMY
(8-12)
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ANATOMY (8-10)
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HISTOLOGY
(8-12)
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BIOETHICS(10-12)
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LUNCH
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LUNCH
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LUNCH
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LUNCH
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LUNCH
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PHYSIOLOGY
(1-5)
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PHYSIOLOGY
(1-5)
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FCM (1-3)
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BIOCHEMISTRY
(1-5)
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BIOCHEMISTRY
(1-5)
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As you can see, I have a full 5-day load of my subjects during the week. (So to my friend whom i had to turn down, now you see) I actually don't want to brag about it, but my course demands so much time and effort and is too clingy and possessive. yes. But that 5-day schedule does not really mean I have the remaining 2 days for myself. oh how i wish. My school hours doesn't even end at 5pm. seriously. if there's no take home worksheets, then there must be something wrong. hahaa
So I usually wake up a bit earlier than the usual, (6 15 if my bed allows, but 6 30 most of the time due to bed issues) because I still have to cook for my breakfast and baon. you know, i don't wanna feel dizzy or light headed during my morning class, and it's Anatomy for Pete's sake. My usual breakfast is the same as my baon for lunch for a less time consuming preparation. Since my parents would visit me weekly, I would just have to re heat the food that they bring. easy way out, I know. haha so, yeah, i would just have to cook rice, re heat my dish and tadaaa! breakfast and lunch on!
I usually eat before taking the shower. and i eat fast, say my food get cooked by 6 45, i will hit the shower before 6 55. well i find it quick. :) and i don't wash my dishes. i throw them after use. joke! hahaha i wash them once I get back from school, together with my lunchbox :) by 7 40 in the morning, i am already preparing to leave my place to walk to school (yes, i live near the university) and arrive just a few minutes before my first class starts.
By the time I came back at aroung 5pm, i would wash my dishes right away. take a rest for an hour, go to shower and take a long nap. By the time I wake up, it is almost 10pm or so and i am recharged and kinda ready to do my homeworks and study for the next day's exams. Dinner? most of the time, I just grab any fruit available in the fridge or reheat any left over. again. Scavenger ang pegaloo. hahaha Usually, i sleep at 2am then the wake up again at 6 15 or 6 30. the routine just go on.
During friday nights, when almost all my energy is drained, i would normally sleep earlier and longer. just the typical school girl trying to recharge her system. but waking up during Saturday is not that different from the rest of the days in the week. I would still have to do some scanning of notes, review then write notes. Same with Sundays. The only difference is that I can actually have breaks any time, review anywhere and just stop if I want.
there are also some changes in my schedule, like when I actually go home to province, there's definitely nothing accomplished. i would rather catch up with the fam and spend bonding moments with them rather than review. and i intentionally do not bring any review material. hahaha bad ass. lol i need some R & R also, and I obviously make the most out of it!
To tell you honestly, the 4 months that i've spent were so far kind to me. I enjoy being independent and being completely responsible for myself. One of the perks of living alone is that you get to do things freely, without having to consider anyone else. Also, you get to discover a lot about yourself, learn a lot on being practical and it allows you to live a lifestyle that is healthy and active.
It will still be a long way to go, I know and I can't wait to try lots of new things and discover more on what's out right there for me. I just believe that life will always be kind as long as you see things in the brighter side and in a more positive perspective.
I guess this is it. I hope you had a great time reading this post. thank you very much!
